Hello Lovely New Coach & Consultant,
How are you doing? I am well.
Shonda Rhimes, in her famous book, "Year of Yes", or so the story goes basically said, "Yes to everything!" Now, I'm not about to advocate that you do that.
I am going to ask you to be discerning about saying "Yes", when it feels right even if you're not 100% sure. Because in that grey area between "Yes" and "No", I know personally my default go to is "No". This is where I ask you to challenge yourself and ask yourself why are you saying "No", is this a thought through response or is it an automatic, let's protect myself from potential harm or an uncertain outcome?
Because recently I had an experience where in the past, I would have said, "No", but I decided to say, "Yes to a networking opportunity, that came out of no-where".
And it has got me thinking about the opportunities that we are blind too. What I mean by this is we are blinded by our expectation and it not being an exact match to what we are seeking.
So today I wanted to share 3 questions to ask yourself before you say "No":
✅ What is triggering or making me feel scared or unsafe about this? And are these concerns fears or facts?
✅ Who can I share this opportunity with that would give me a fresh perspective before I give my answer?
✅ What is best outcome from this decision and is worth more than my fear?
To read the full story on my networking experience. You can check it out: HERE
Are you ready to embrace your next opportunity?
Have a great evening.
Warm Regards,
Ekua 💛
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