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#526 Feb 10, 2026 4 min read

Last chance for in-person CPD +Juliet's Musing on Self Abandonment

Open this email for in person CPD opportunities, as well as Juliet's latest musing and offers on our upcoming courses.

In this email there are THREE things:


1) A limited number of places remain for our in-person workshops! Sign up today to get face to face CPD on working with couples.



2) A list of workshops coming up that have savings (i.e. an early booking discount) running out soon, and courses that are happening in the next few weeks, so you can book ahead.

and


3) Juliet's Musing - When You Start to Disappear: The Quiet Cost of Self-Abandonment



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Tired of Online CPD?

Come Back to the Room: 2 workshops

There is something quietly nourishing about learning together in the same room. Online CPD can be convenient, but it often flattens what matters most: the felt sense of being with others, the conversations over coffee, the unplanned moments where ideas land in the body rather than just the mind. In-person CPD offers texture, warmth, and relational learning.

You notice yourself differently.

You remember why you came into this work.

If you miss that kind of contact, we have two more in-person workshops this year:


21–22 February, Meeting Their Partner’s Needs

and

18–19 April, Sex, Arousal and Ageing.

Both are part of our Working With Couples modular series.

In Ealing, West London.

Only a few places left, book now.

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EARLY BOOKING DISCOUNTS RUNNING OUT SOON: Click blue links to go to website



COURSES IN NEXT FEW WEEKS




CERTIFICATES:

Those workshops that are part of a Certificate Training are noted above.

WWC is the Certificate in Working with Couples.

WWCT is the Certificate in Working With Complexities of Trauma.

DWCR is the Certificate in Diversity Within Contemporary Relationships.

CIT is the Certificate in Attachment

You can take just one module, or click the link to see which other modules make up the Certificate.


For the FULL LIST of all our workshops and ALTERNATIVE DATES go to www.therapyandcounselling.co.uk


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JULIET'S MUSINGS

37. When You Start to Disappear: The Quiet Cost of Self-Abandonment

 

This fourth piece also comes from the same clinical work that shaped the earlier reflections. By the time we had named nitpicking, defensiveness, and the fog of negativity that hung over the relationship, something else became painfully clear. One partner was not just coping with these patterns. They were slowly disappearing inside them.


Self-abandonment rarely announces itself loudly. It develops quietly, as a series of small adjustments made in the hope of keeping things steady. You speak less. You ask for less. You smooth your edges, soften your needs, and tell yourself it is not worth the tension. You become very good at accommodating, anticipating, and managing, while losing touch with what you actually feel or want.


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And click here to see all of Juliet's Musings




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