JULIET'S MUSINGS

41. THE BOUNDARIES SERIES: TALK THREE

When Nothing Gets In

Walls, Withdrawal, and the Fear of Being Taken Over

Not all boundary problems look emotional. Some look calm, capable, and contained. These are the people others describe as “so together”, or “low maintenance”, or “never a bother”. Underneath, there is often a very different story.

A walled-off orange has very thick skin. Nothing gets in. Other people’s feelings, needs, and bids for connection are kept at a safe distance. This is not cruelty and it is not indifference. It is protection.

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