You are who we thought you were | 17 secs

Marriage doesn’t change who you are, it reveals who you are.

Think about it.

While the circumstances of your marriage will definitely impact the way you think and behave, the truth is that you have always been who you currently are.

You're simply evolving and developing in certain areas (for better or worse).

Recognizing and owning this will help you take responsibility for your actions instead of blaming them all on your mate and/or the marriage.