Joseph Louis Tan

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Why Most Outreach Gets Ignored (And How to Fix It)

Arrived in Phuket today. One thing I’ve noticed while traveling—how you approach people makes all the difference.


If you walk up to a stranger and immediately ask for something, they’ll shut down. But if you start with a genuine conversation, they open up.


The same applies to reaching out to hiring managers. Most UX designers send cold messages that get ignored because they’re doing it wrong.


❌ “Hi, I’m looking for a UX job. Can you refer me?” (Too transactional)

❌ “Hey, I’d love to connect!” (No reason to reply)


If you sound like everyone else, you’ll get ignored like everyone else.


Here’s what actually works:


✅ Personalize based on their journey (“I saw you moved from X to Y—how was that transition?”)

✅ Start a real conversation instead of asking for favors

✅ Make it easy to reply (short, casual, no pressure)


One of my clients landed 5 interviews in two weeks by fixing his outreach. Instead of sending cold DMs, he started conversations the right way.


That’s exactly what I teach inside the 3-Hour UX Job Search System—how to reach out without feeling spammy.


Normally $300, but while I’m on this cruise, it’s just $49.


3 days left before the offer disappears.


👉 Get it here: https://josephlouistan.notion.site/The-3-Hour-UX-Job-Search-System-1b6e31a3485980609590d65323f04000?pvs=4

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