In this email there are THREE things:
1) Other Loves 1 & 2 with Diane Hassall, CPD on how to properly honour your clients relational styles.
2) A list of workshops coming up that have savings (i.e. an early booking discount) running out soon, and courses that are happening in the next few weeks, so you can book ahead.
and
3) Juliet's Musing - THE BOUNDARIES SERIES: TALK Six - Invitation, Request, Demand
Other Loves 1 & 2 with Diane Hassall
We never know who will walk through the door, and what their lifestyle will be.
Therapists today are increasingly working with clients whose relationships sit outside traditional norms. A therapist who understands polyamory, and the wider cultural diversity of relationships, is better equipped to meet clients without judgement or assumption. Not all relationships follow a monogamous script, and when that norm is unconsciously imposed, clients can feel misunderstood or even pathologised. This training invites a broader curiosity about how people negotiate intimacy, boundaries, attachment, and consent, while helping you distinguish between what is truly problematic and what simply sits outside mainstream expectations.
Other Loves 1 – Consensual Non-monogamy and Polyamory offers a grounded, clinically relevant exploration of multi-partner relationships.
Other Loves 2 – Exploring Relationship Styles across Cultures and Religions expands your understanding of arranged marriages, polygamy, and culturally shaped relational norms.
Each course can be taken as a standalone module, or as part of our Certificate in Working with Diversity in Contemporary Relationships.
Thoughtful, practical, and rooted in real clinical experience, these trainings support not just knowledge, but stance: a willingness to listen deeply, question one’s own biases, and honour the relational worlds clients are actually living in.
EARLY BOOKING DISCOUNTS RUNNING OUT SOON: Click blue links to go to website
- Communication & Difference: Starts Monday 4th May 2026 Discount ends 4th April 2026
- Working with Kink: Starts Thursday 4th June 2026 Discount ends 4th April 2026
- Bisexuality And Sexual Fluidity: Exploring The Sexual Spectrum: Starts Friday 5th June 2026 Discount ends 5th April 2026
- Erotic Transference in the Therapy Room: Starts Saturday 6th June 2026 Discount ends 6th April 2026
- Meeting Partners Needs: Starts Tuesday 9th June 2026 Discount ends 9th April 2026
- Advanced Certificate In Neurodiversity-Informed Practice: Starts Sunday 10th May 2026 Discount ends 10th April 2026
- Promoting Intimacy and Connection in Couples Therapy: An Attachment Informed Approach: Starts Friday 12th June 2026 Discount ends 12th April 2026
- Navigating Needs: A Workshop for Those Parenting a Neurodivergent Child: Starts Sunday 14th June 2026 Discount ends 14th April 2026
- Behind the Screens- Understanding Compulsive Sexual Behaviour and its Relational Impact: Starts Monday 15th June 2026 Discount ends 15th April 2026
- Couples in Conflict: Starts Wednesday 17th June 2026 Discount ends 17th April 2026
- Fundamentals of Working with Couples: Starts Tuesday 23rd June 2026 Discount ends 23rd April 2026
- Working with Trauma: An Embodied approach to Working with Traumatic Experience: Starts Friday 3rd July 2026 Discount ends 3rd May 2026
COURSES IN NEXT FEW WEEKS
- NOW FULL Fundamentals of Working with Couples: Starts Friday 10th April 2026: Certificate WWC
- Creative Writing In The Therapeutic Encounter: Starts Tuesday 14th April 2026
- Attachment and Oneself: An Experential Group for Caregiving Professionals: Starts Friday 17th April 2026: Certificate CIT
- Sex Arousal and Ageing IN PERSON: Starts Saturday 18th April 2026: Certificate WWC
- PBSP Supervision and Live Practice Day: Starts Thursday 23rd April 2026
- Anger, Rage & Relationship: Starts Saturday 25th April 2026: Certificate WWCT
- Communication & Difference: Starts Monday 4th May 2026: Certificate WWC
- Introduction to Attachment Informed Therapy and its Clinical Application: Starts Friday 8th May 2026: Certificate CIT
- Advanced Certificate In Neurodiversity-Informed Practice: Starts Sunday 10th May 2026
- Working Somatically With Dreams- A Relational and Embodied Approach: Starts Friday 15th May 2026
- Other Loves 1 - Consensual Non-monogamy and Polyamory: Working with multi-partner relationships: Starts Thursday 21st May 2026: Certificate DWCR
- Other Loves 2 - Exploring Relationship Styles across Cultures and Religions, including Arranged Marriages and Polygamy: Starts Friday 22nd May 2026: Certificate DWCR
- Working with Kink: Starts Thursday June 4th 2026: Certificate DWCR
- Bisexuality And Sexual Fluidity: Exploring The Sexual Spectrum: Starts Friday 5th June 2026: Certificate DWCR
- Erotic Transference in the Therapy Room: Starts Saturday 6th June 2026
- Meeting Partners Needs: Starts Tuesday 9th June 2026: Certificate WWC
- Promoting Intimacy and Connection in Couples Therapy: An Attachment Informed Approach: Starts Friday 12th June 2026: Certificate CIT
- Navigating Needs: A Workshop for Those Parenting a Neurodivergent Child: Starts Sunday 14th June 2026
- Behind the Screens- Understanding Compulsive Sexual Behaviour and its Relational Impact: Starts Monday 15th June 2026
- Couples in Conflict: Starts Wednesday 17th June 2026: Certificate WWC
- Fundamentals of Working with Couples: Starts Tuesday 23rd June 2026: Certificate WWC
- Working with Trauma: An Embodied approach to Working with Traumatic Experience: Starts Friday 3rd July 2026: Certificate WWCT
- Working Alongside Trans, Non-binary & Questioning Clients: Starts Wednesday 8th July 2026: Certificate DWCR
- Clinical application of the Adult Attachment Interview (AAI) and Mentalisation: Starts Friday 10th July 2026: Certificate CIT
- Dealing With Affairs: Starts Friday 17th July 2026: Certificate WWC
CERTIFICATES:
Those workshops that are part of a Certificate Training are noted above.
WWC is the Certificate in Working with Couples.
WWCT is the Certificate in Working With Complexities of Trauma.
DWCR is the Certificate in Diversity Within Contemporary Relationships.
CIT is the Certificate in Attachment
You can take just one module, or click the link to see which other modules make up the Certificate.
For the FULL LIST of all our workshops and ALTERNATIVE DATES go to www.therapyandcounselling.co.uk
JULIET'S MUSINGS
44. THE BOUNDARIES SERIES: TALK SIX
Invitation, Request, Demand
When Desire Becomes Safe – and When It Doesn’t
Desire is not the problem in relationships. What destabilises couples is how desire is expressed, and what happens when it is not met.
From a boundary perspective, there are three ways our orange can reach towards another person: invitation, request, and demand.
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